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	<title>Comments on: Herman Has Feelings Too!</title>
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		<title>By: Hava</title>
		<link>http://nonfictionlover.today.com/2009/01/14/herman-has-feelings-too/#comment-4330</link>
		<dc:creator>Hava</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Jan 2009 04:53:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Stephanie &#62;&#62; You really wrote that when you were 15??!!  Wowsers girlfriend, you're awesome!!!!  I liked to write back then, but I don't think I would have been talented enough to write that.

I know that I said that it was overly sentimental, and I still believe that's true, but you have to judge something written by a teen different than how you would judge something written by an adult, and for a teen, that was extremely well written.  And a sweet story. :-)

As for the lady who redid her house in black and white, I have to say: At least she kept it at her house.  I think the strangest part of this whole thing has been this patron giving us the stuffed animals, and then expecting us to play along with her when it comes to talking to the darn things.  Do what you want at home, but don't force me to go along with. KWIM?

Lynne &#62;&#62; That is true.  A part of me is sad for her and what has obviously been a difficult life.  I guess the larger part of me is half laughing/half frustrated that she's forcing me to play her games, or otherwise come across as being a mean and hateful person.  When a grown woman coos at a stuffed animal in public, and asks you to kiss the darn thing often, you know she's missing a screw upstairs.  Or ten.

Chris &#62;&#62; I am such a slacker, I know.  But I wrote this blog on the day that I was at home, sick, and I didn't think I should probably tie up people's time at work by calling and asking them to run over and look at the little yellow slip.  Today I took my camera with me to work and took the picture you see above, and added in the information about Kiki's name, which is why the blog now has all of that in there.  I figured a picture is worth a thousand words, and thus this picture had to be worth at least two thousand. ;-)

Autism Insights &#62;&#62; Hi girlfriend!  I wandered onto your site the other night and wondered how you were doing, so I dropped a card and read through a bit.  I'm so glad you're still blogging.  Many of the people who started when we did aren't blogging anymore, so it's good to see some of us "old timers" are still around. :-P

Sariah &#62;&#62; Nope, no THE Charley.  If you scroll up to the first comment, you'll see a link to a story written by Stephanie (the person who also wrote the comment) and it's called Charley.  It's about a stuffed bear and how he feels after being forgotten about when the child grows up. 

And next time you come in, you'll have to remind me and I'll show you.  As if either of us will ever really remember this... 

Ruthie &#62;&#62; My thoughts exactly!

Ann &#62;&#62; Havilah?  Don't you mean MOTHER?  Daughter, getting a little disrespectful there, don'tcha think?

:-P

And you're right, she does wear the same outfit each time.  I had forgotten that tidbit until you mentioned it.  She &lt;em&gt;is&lt;/em&gt; a nice person, other than her stuffed-animal-talking obsession...

I think that even if she had just given it to us and told us to have it as our mascot or something, that would have been cute and fine.  The problem comes when she wants us to feed the darn thing, and kiss it, and talk to it often.  That's where I draw the line.

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Stephanie &gt;&gt; You really wrote that when you were 15??!!  Wowsers girlfriend, you&#8217;re awesome!!!!  I liked to write back then, but I don&#8217;t think I would have been talented enough to write that.</p>
<p>I know that I said that it was overly sentimental, and I still believe that&#8217;s true, but you have to judge something written by a teen different than how you would judge something written by an adult, and for a teen, that was extremely well written.  And a sweet story. <img src='http://nonfictionlover.today.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>As for the lady who redid her house in black and white, I have to say: At least she kept it at her house.  I think the strangest part of this whole thing has been this patron giving us the stuffed animals, and then expecting us to play along with her when it comes to talking to the darn things.  Do what you want at home, but don&#8217;t force me to go along with. KWIM?</p>
<p>Lynne &gt;&gt; That is true.  A part of me is sad for her and what has obviously been a difficult life.  I guess the larger part of me is half laughing/half frustrated that she&#8217;s forcing me to play her games, or otherwise come across as being a mean and hateful person.  When a grown woman coos at a stuffed animal in public, and asks you to kiss the darn thing often, you know she&#8217;s missing a screw upstairs.  Or ten.</p>
<p>Chris &gt;&gt; I am such a slacker, I know.  But I wrote this blog on the day that I was at home, sick, and I didn&#8217;t think I should probably tie up people&#8217;s time at work by calling and asking them to run over and look at the little yellow slip.  Today I took my camera with me to work and took the picture you see above, and added in the information about Kiki&#8217;s name, which is why the blog now has all of that in there.  I figured a picture is worth a thousand words, and thus this picture had to be worth at least two thousand. <img src='http://nonfictionlover.today.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Autism Insights &gt;&gt; Hi girlfriend!  I wandered onto your site the other night and wondered how you were doing, so I dropped a card and read through a bit.  I&#8217;m so glad you&#8217;re still blogging.  Many of the people who started when we did aren&#8217;t blogging anymore, so it&#8217;s good to see some of us &#8220;old timers&#8221; are still around. <img src='http://nonfictionlover.today.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_razz.gif' alt=':-P' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Sariah &gt;&gt; Nope, no THE Charley.  If you scroll up to the first comment, you&#8217;ll see a link to a story written by Stephanie (the person who also wrote the comment) and it&#8217;s called Charley.  It&#8217;s about a stuffed bear and how he feels after being forgotten about when the child grows up. </p>
<p>And next time you come in, you&#8217;ll have to remind me and I&#8217;ll show you.  As if either of us will ever really remember this&#8230; </p>
<p>Ruthie &gt;&gt; My thoughts exactly!</p>
<p>Ann &gt;&gt; Havilah?  Don&#8217;t you mean MOTHER?  Daughter, getting a little disrespectful there, don&#8217;tcha think?</p>
<p> <img src='http://nonfictionlover.today.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_razz.gif' alt=':-P' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>And you&#8217;re right, she does wear the same outfit each time.  I had forgotten that tidbit until you mentioned it.  She <em>is</em> a nice person, other than her stuffed-animal-talking obsession&#8230;</p>
<p>I think that even if she had just given it to us and told us to have it as our mascot or something, that would have been cute and fine.  The problem comes when she wants us to feed the darn thing, and kiss it, and talk to it often.  That&#8217;s where I draw the line.</p>
<p>Hava</p>
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		<title>By: Ann</title>
		<link>http://nonfictionlover.today.com/2009/01/14/herman-has-feelings-too/#comment-4328</link>
		<dc:creator>Ann</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Jan 2009 22:45:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>No, Havilah, you're right. She's crazy. I mean, I used to talk to animals too, but I stopped when I was SEVEN. Also, have you noticed that she wears the same outfit every time she's in here? That, to me, speaks volumes about her sanity more than anything.

BTW, funny! And I didn't know that the cat had a name. I guess I learn something new every day!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>No, Havilah, you&#8217;re right. She&#8217;s crazy. I mean, I used to talk to animals too, but I stopped when I was SEVEN. Also, have you noticed that she wears the same outfit every time she&#8217;s in here? That, to me, speaks volumes about her sanity more than anything.</p>
<p>BTW, funny! And I didn&#8217;t know that the cat had a name. I guess I learn something new every day!</p>
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		<title>By: Autism Insights</title>
		<link>http://nonfictionlover.today.com/2009/01/14/herman-has-feelings-too/#comment-4323</link>
		<dc:creator>Autism Insights</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Jan 2009 12:58:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://nonfictionlover.today.com/2009/01/14/herman-has-feelings-too/#comment-4323</guid>
		<description>Hava!!  It's been ages!  Stopping in to say hi :-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hava!!  It&#8217;s been ages!  Stopping in to say hi <img src='http://nonfictionlover.today.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /></p>
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		<title>By: Chris</title>
		<link>http://nonfictionlover.today.com/2009/01/14/herman-has-feelings-too/#comment-4322</link>
		<dc:creator>Chris</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Jan 2009 10:08:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://nonfictionlover.today.com/2009/01/14/herman-has-feelings-too/#comment-4322</guid>
		<description>Oh yes, the infamous Stuffed Animal Lady....I can't remember for sure what she did for Herman's birthday, but I believe she brought cupcakes.  The little cat's name is Kiki, and HOW DARE YOU not take the time to find out!!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh yes, the infamous Stuffed Animal Lady&#8230;.I can&#8217;t remember for sure what she did for Herman&#8217;s birthday, but I believe she brought cupcakes.  The little cat&#8217;s name is Kiki, and HOW DARE YOU not take the time to find out!!!</p>
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		<title>By: *lynne*</title>
		<link>http://nonfictionlover.today.com/2009/01/14/herman-has-feelings-too/#comment-4321</link>
		<dc:creator>*lynne*</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Jan 2009 05:39:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Actually my heart goes out to that patron of yours... I wonder what has happened in her life that's caused her to put so much attention to her stuffed animals...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Actually my heart goes out to that patron of yours&#8230; I wonder what has happened in her life that&#8217;s caused her to put so much attention to her stuffed animals&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: stephanieebarr</title>
		<link>http://nonfictionlover.today.com/2009/01/14/herman-has-feelings-too/#comment-4319</link>
		<dc:creator>stephanieebarr</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Jan 2009 04:03:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://nonfictionlover.today.com/2009/01/14/herman-has-feelings-too/#comment-4319</guid>
		<description>Well, truthfully, I wrote Charley when I was 15, so, um, I guess that would be a bit different than a forty year old having a deep personal relationship with a stuffed cow she gave to the library.  Of course, according to this sanity test I just took, I'm kinda insane, so you might want to take that with a grain of salt.

On the other hand, I've heard of a woman who had her house done completely in black and white cows including having a piano with cow spots.  That's a bit unusual too.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well, truthfully, I wrote Charley when I was 15, so, um, I guess that would be a bit different than a forty year old having a deep personal relationship with a stuffed cow she gave to the library.  Of course, according to this sanity test I just took, I&#8217;m kinda insane, so you might want to take that with a grain of salt.</p>
<p>On the other hand, I&#8217;ve heard of a woman who had her house done completely in black and white cows including having a piano with cow spots.  That&#8217;s a bit unusual too.</p>
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		<title>By: Hava</title>
		<link>http://nonfictionlover.today.com/2009/01/14/herman-has-feelings-too/#comment-4315</link>
		<dc:creator>Hava</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Jan 2009 00:56:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Stephanie &#62;&#62; I read Charley - a little too much trying to be sentimental, but other than that, I thought it was fine. ;-) 

I don't have any problems with people writing stories about attachments to stuffed animals as a &lt;em&gt;fictional&lt;/em&gt; story.  But when people start cooing and doing the whole baby talk thing to a stuffed animal sitting on the shelf at the library, it starts to creep me out. :-P

Am I strange with this one?  Should a 40-year-old woman be speaking baby talk to a stuffed animal in public?  Tell me what you guys think - I'd love to hear it!

Melissa &#62;&#62; I'm quickly finding out that "Stranger Than Fiction" doesn't even begin to scratch the surface of working with the public.  The more bizarre a story is, the more believable it is to me, simply because we get some awfully weird things happening at the library all the time.  And I know we can't be the only place that has their fair share of loony-bin patrons/customers. :-P

Hava</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Stephanie &gt;&gt; I read Charley - a little too much trying to be sentimental, but other than that, I thought it was fine. <img src='http://nonfictionlover.today.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>I don&#8217;t have any problems with people writing stories about attachments to stuffed animals as a <em>fictional</em> story.  But when people start cooing and doing the whole baby talk thing to a stuffed animal sitting on the shelf at the library, it starts to creep me out. <img src='http://nonfictionlover.today.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_razz.gif' alt=':-P' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Am I strange with this one?  Should a 40-year-old woman be speaking baby talk to a stuffed animal in public?  Tell me what you guys think - I&#8217;d love to hear it!</p>
<p>Melissa &gt;&gt; I&#8217;m quickly finding out that &#8220;Stranger Than Fiction&#8221; doesn&#8217;t even begin to scratch the surface of working with the public.  The more bizarre a story is, the more believable it is to me, simply because we get some awfully weird things happening at the library all the time.  And I know we can&#8217;t be the only place that has their fair share of loony-bin patrons/customers. <img src='http://nonfictionlover.today.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_razz.gif' alt=':-P' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Hava</p>
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		<title>By: melissan</title>
		<link>http://nonfictionlover.today.com/2009/01/14/herman-has-feelings-too/#comment-4314</link>
		<dc:creator>melissan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Jan 2009 00:56:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sounds like a prize, for sure.  It is so ridiculous that it must be real.  Working with the public, I've come across my share of loonies, this one would rate high on the list.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sounds like a prize, for sure.  It is so ridiculous that it must be real.  Working with the public, I&#8217;ve come across my share of loonies, this one would rate high on the list.</p>
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		<title>By: stephanieebarr</title>
		<link>http://nonfictionlover.today.com/2009/01/14/herman-has-feelings-too/#comment-4312</link>
		<dc:creator>stephanieebarr</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Jan 2009 00:44:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I'd better not let you read &lt;a href="http://flitting.org/forum/viewtopic.php?f=5&#38;t=5" rel="nofollow"&gt;&lt;em&gt;Charley&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/a&gt;, then.  If you do, though, check out another short story there, too, by Ravyn.  It's about a library.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;d better not let you read <a href="http://flitting.org/forum/viewtopic.php?f=5&amp;t=5" rel="nofollow"><em>Charley</em></a>, then.  If you do, though, check out another short story there, too, by Ravyn.  It&#8217;s about a library.</p>
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